The other day, on my drive home, I saw a hitchhiker. He was in his 20s, lightly dressed for the cold weather and had no bag or backpack with him. He was in the classic pose, thumb out, on the side of a suburban road. I drove past, with no thought of picking him up.

For some reason, hitchhikers seem to have all-but-disappeared from the roads of America. I was trying to remember the last time I saw one anywhere and couldn’t. When I include other countries (Australia, UK, Japan) into the equation the results are equally barren. Could hitchhiking be a lost art?

Only once in my life did I try it. It was on the Pacific Highway, from Newcastle to Charlestown. Me and one other person who I now forget (was it you MMN?) made a half-hearted attempt to hitch a ride. No-one picked us up; no-one even stopped. I don’t remember how old I was, probably in my late teens. I figure the lack of interest was in no small way related to our appearance.

In those days, or rather at that age, there was no fear of some stranger picking us up and giving us a ride a mile or two down the road. Although the perception of hitchhikers was certainly there, who ever thought it was anything beyond urban legend?
And yet I wouldn’t pick up a hitchhiker today. Not even a young, harmless looking guy in Delmar, NY. In this increasingly social, decreasingly private world it seems ironic to me how people seem to be less trusting of strangers than ever. The world gets closer and yet the fear of the unknown increases. Maybe the reason I didn’t pick this guy up was because I didn’t want to be bothered; maybe it was because somewhere in my mind I feared he’d be a psycho.

Has anyone ever picked up a hitcher, or successfully hitchhiked themselves? How did it go?